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Aug
19

It seemed to me that Ian mastered both his sitting and crawling skills at the same time. Prior to this (6months – 7months old), he can sit up with little support, but he tends to just lie on his back from sitting position because he never get knocked on his head as we always let him frolic around on the bed. So he has acquired that habit. Now am trying to slowly teach him that he cannot do that when he is sitting. In order to lie down, he needs to use his hand to lower himself first.

As for his crawling skills, before this, he crawls with his legs, and slides forward with his head on the bed instead of using his hands to inch forward. He looked really funny, just like a tractor when he does that. With his butt high up in the air and his face splattered on the bed. Hubby taught him how to use his hands and he is a fast learner, because he is already doing that. That kid now climbs all over pillows and me! I can no longer use my body to block him anymore because he will just crawl right all over me to get to his point of interest, which is the door of the room. I think by now he had forgotten the trauma of falling from the bed because he had no qualms about diving head down first. =.=

Lately, he seemed to sleep later than usual. So each time when we were playing on the bed, he never gets tired. He will always make attempts to crawl towards the door of the room, while I will always try to block him off. Whenever he reaches me and crawled over me, I will carry him up and put him right at the furthest corner and he will just start all over again. Both of us will repeat this process for god knows how long, until one of us eventually tires out. After he gets exhausted of doing the same thing repetitively, he will just lie on the bed and play with his smelly bolster instead. And then he starts to ramble. Yesterday, it was “da-da-dei or da dei”, something along the syllable. So he yaks and yaks and finally when he gets frustrated that nobody is paying any attention to him, he sometimes starts to yell or said “huh” just so to get your attention. I pretended to be asleep.

Up until a point he stops his baby talks and starts to roll around, putting his hand in the air to feel his surroundings. And then I fell asleep. I think he did too because when I woke up later on as hubby came in to check on us, Ian was fast asleep.

That little guy has a bundle of energy from god knows where. Hehee.. :D

But I love to play with him. When I greeted him good morning, or good evening, or just telling him I love him, he always grins or sometimes laughs. He is a happy child, whatever funny sound I make triggers him into a laughing spree. And he likes to play hide and seek. Each time it won’t fail to make him laugh. :D

Yesterday we put him in his high chair while hubby and I was having our dinner, and he keeps leaning towards us, asking us to carry him. And we pretended to ignore him. Consequently, he went “uh.. uh”, just grunting, calling to us. It is his way of attracting our attention. Then he started to chew although there’s nothing in his mouth and swallows his saliva. It was really funny to watch. Pitiful too because I can’t let him yet those food yet. hehee..

Next time my boy, when you are older. :D

But lately he has been picky, always not finishing his milk. It was heartache on my side dumping the unfinished milk that I had painstakingly expressed for him. :( He has this bad habit of always leaving 1 oz of milk in his bottle and refuses to drink after that. Hmmph!

Category: baby, bubbly  One Comment
Aug
17

Today I got my LBD from the seller. Yay! I tried it on first thing when I got home, take a good look in the mirror, turned over to hubby and asked him.

Me: dear, I wear this to wedding dinner ok?

Hubby: so low, so short… (referring to the neckline and hemline)

Me: =.=ll

Before this I refrained from buying black dresses because it made me looked thin. But I still believe every gal should own at least a LBD. It is a staple in a gal’s wardrobe. Hehe.. I think what I lack now is a nice brown belt. Hmmn, not to mention, a nice pair of heels that matches the belt. ;p I bought this dress online, for rm58 (dress+rm5 postage, and thank god it fits!). :D

Category: bubbly  3 Comments
Aug
16

Sometimes it is tricky when trying to put Ian to sleep at night.  He sometimes has a surge of adrenaline that I have no idea comes from where, and just refuses to sleep and keeps rolling around. Last night, after having dinner, hubby tried to put him to sleep because Ian looks flattened out while I finished up my portion of the dinner and washed the dishes. By the time I am done, I went into the room to check on him. and guess what, hubby was on the bed looking so defeated and yet our boy was still frolicking around on the bed. When he saw he, he just lighten up and tried to crawled over. :D hubby told me he tried countless times to cuddle him and sing him to sleep but Ian continued to be alert.

I told him lately I tried not to cuddle him to sleep anymore, preferably letting him roll around until he got tired and falls asleep. But most of the time he got cranky instead and I had to cuddle him to sleep. Haha!

Yesterday I told hubby I will take over from him, so he went out to do his stuff while I stayed in with Ian. At first I let him played around a little longer, and after awhile he started to get fussy so I cuddled him and sang to him. but boy was he alert right after that! As I walked to and fro in the room singing, his eyes just can’t stop taking in the sights. He doesn’t look sleepy at all!

So I put him down on the bed again, and after awhile repeated the while ritual.  And he still refused to sleep. So I let him roll around in the bed some more, and I can feel my own sleepiness creeping in. The last thing I remembered was Ian still rolling around on the bed when hubby came into the room and woke me up. And I found Ian curled up on my side sleeping peacefully with his bolster in his face. I took away his bolster, placed my arm around his back and continued sleeping happily. :D

Oh ya, did I mention the little guy had a really funny habit of always using his hand to feel things around him when he is half asleep? He will be semi conscious, and closing his eyes, but his hand will be up in the air feeling the bed, bolster and basically just the air before he finally settles down into a deep slumber. Hubby and I find that amusing and really funny to watch, it is as if he must touch everything and make sure it is his before he dozes off. I must take a video of this one of these days as memory. :D

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Aug
16

You know you are loved when your husband does the simplest things:

  1. Waiting for you to finish your last session of expressing although he is sleepy just so he can help you to wash your breast pump while asking you to go sleep first :D
  2. Always making sure the bottles in your study room never runs empty :D  (I always told hubby I had magic bottles that will filled up by itself when it has run dry)
  3. Letting you nap in the afternoon while he takes care of baby :D
  4. Always offering to chip in whenever your account runs dry :( (hubby has been utterly sweet by offering to pay half for the car fix, but I declined. I had a thing about cleaning up my own mess)
  5. Always letting you eat the nicest thing on the dish :D
  6. Gives you his portion of the rice when you complained yours is not enough. huhu.. I always feel bad when hubby did this. Last weekend I complained my rice wasn’t enough and hubby happily gave me his, and he ended up eating so little and binge on junk food later of the night. ><ll
  7. Buy you any food you are craving for with no questions asked :D
  8. Helping you to load your half of the clothes into the washing machine when you fell asleep with the baby (hubby helps to wash and hang the clothes to dry :D )
  9. When you said sorry to him for wrecking his baby (car), he answered with a smile on his face “my baby is you. Not the car:D sob.. *so touched*
  10. Gives you a quick 5min massage when he himself is tired out of his brains
Category: bubbly, emo  2 Comments
Aug
13

Today I finally did something which I had wanted to do in a long time. I talked to an acquaintance, a normal chat of how we are doing in general, and so far everything seems well. Well, then she had to leave to go home, so we say bye to each other. But I felt like at least I had accomplished something. I had made peace with the past in the longest time, but there are some things which I felt could have gone down in a better way. Some bridges were burnt in the past, and I’m adamant to build back the bridge somehow. But before this, I had no guts, to be honest, so I did not make the first move until today. After the chat, I felt wonderful. Because I truly believe that what had transpired years back was due to misunderstanding and some heated emotion, causing things to have gone awry. It wasn’t supposed to have ended the way it did, but words were exchanged, and in the process everyone got hurt. Until today I still can’t quite comprehend it, but I’m letting bygones be bygones.

I’m happy all of us were fine now, and I’m looking forward to better days. I don’t know why, call me crazy or what, but I somehow believe that this relationship is worth saving. I feel like I ought to take the first step after so long, just to see how it goes. At least I would know on my part, I had done what I can. And deep down I believe that this person is a nice person, and I wasn’t ready to let things hang the way it had, although it had been 2years, I supposed? Anyways, I’m happy. Although it was a short conversation, but I am happy it happened. Maybe one day we will end up being fast friends, who knows, but until that day comes, I shall wish her all the good things in life. :D

There is still one more person I would like to get back on talking terms. Hmmn….

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Aug
08

I wrecked hubby’s car today. PHJ kissed Saga’s ass due to my carelessness. :(

I was on my way back from Jusco after dropping off my cousin and I saw the green light at the traffic near roundabout. So I did not slow down. Mistake number one. I was in the 2nd lane from the left at that time. I saw the queue on that lane was quite long, so I glanced at the rear view mirror to check whether I can cut over to the far left lane or not. Mistake number two. Just a split second had gone by, and I noticed suddenly the car right in front of me at the 2nd lane suddenly was stationery because it had applied emergency brake, so I hit the brake and held the steering wheel tightly. Bang!

I was too late in braking, or was it because I was too fast, I had no idea. All I know is I am at fault. I felt the impact, but it wasn’t that bad, but when I saw the car hood being dented upwards, I know I’m in deep shit. First thing I did was called hubby when the driver from the car in front got off and walked off to my car to ask me what was I going to do about it. :(

Sigh, he was being a nice guy. He told me to drive the car to the side of the road, and helped me to block off traffic. Initially I told hubby to come over, but then I figured what the heck just drive home with the guys in the other car and let hubby see the damage I had done to his car. :(

The Saga only had a mild dent to its bumper, but PHJ suffered  badly. Cracked left headlights/casing, me have no idea, missing H and broken plate number, real bad scratch on the left side and dented car hood. :(

The guy told me to settle which I agreed, so tomorrow hubby will go off with him to fix the car. :( There goes my ECBP. :(

I felt so very guilty for totaling hubby’s car. :(

After settling with the guy on what to do tomorrow, I just broke down at home. Hubby consoled me by telling me that it is no big deal, just that the car needed a fix. As long as I am alright, he is ok with it. I secretly think he needed the consoling. :(

 Just now, halfway thru feeding Ian his dinner, Ian just puked. Everything hubby fed him came out. :( Not sure what happened though. we just monitor him, hopefully he will be fine.

 20mins ago, a glass bowl from the rack fell off to the floor and broke into pieces. The bowl was on top of the washing machine, and apparently when the washing machine spun, the bowl fell out of the dish rack and went splattering into pieces.

 3 incidents in a day, does this mean good luck will follow suit soon?

:(

 While I was typing this, hubby came over and asked me not to be down. Sigh.. he’s such a sweetie. :(

Category: emo  4 Comments
Aug
08

Lately, insects be it mosquitoes or god-knows-what always seems to feast on Ian. His face and hands and legs bear testimony to this, and it’s such heartache to watch it. I have checked the bed and his clothes for ants, but sometimes he still wakes up having red spots here and there on his body. Some even turned into small blisters with I find saddening to watch. :(

I am really running out of idea how to prevent this. :(

I’m thinking now to buy those insects sprays and spray on his clothes instead of just turning on the electrical mosquitoes repellent or using the mosquitoes patch. Sob.. :(

Category: baby  2 Comments
Aug
08

31st july marked the day Ian had his first fall from the bed. The bed in the master room is about 50cm high so the impact is pretty bad too I figured. It was on a Saturday morning, around 5am, when hubby and I were sleeping, and suddenly we were startled with a thump and Ian’s loud cries. Panicking both of us jumped off the bed and found Ian on his side crying his lungs. ( the pillows which we put at the foot of the bed at Ian’s area lay on the floor too).

. :( I think the sight will haunt me for a very long time. :(

Hubby quickly picked Ian up, and we checked him for bumps but could not find any, but we saw some bruises on his left cheek. Ian just cried inconsolably and finally after a while he stopped crying but continued sobbing. I was starting to sob away too, due to heartache and guilt. :(

After feeding him some milk, we let him sleep back again on the bed, but hubby and I were too traumatized to continue sleeping. In the morning, we still continue our plan to go back to my hometown, but as expected Ian gets scared and cried easily whenever anyone approached him, be it my parents or relatives. :( we made a short trip home, and stayed home on Sunday. But Saturday and Sunday night, Ian had a hard time falling asleep. He was traumatized as well because sometimes when we were trying to sing him to sleep and went into the room, he just cried. Even carrying him horizontally makes him cried. :(

Not to mention for nights hubby and I did not sleep well too. We put Ian in playpen for 2 nights, but subsequent nights he continue sleeping with us because he keeps waking up and cried. I put a mattress at the foot of the bed, something I should have done in a long time. Sigh… sometimes when both hubby and I are asleep, we still jolted up and thought that Ian had fell off. :(

Both of us are forever haunted by this incident.  It has been 1 week since this happened, and I still feel the heartache. I think it would never go away. What I can do now is to be a better parent to Ian. Sob..

Category: baby  3 Comments
Jul
16

Lamb shank, mashed potatoes and salad for a meal. :D Apparently cooking lamb shank is a breeze based on this recipe I got off Chan Lilian’s website.

yummy italian meal :D

And I also tried making some hotdog pie. Pic as below. Just buy those frozen puff pastry from Jusco, and cooked up a nice filling. Easy peasy. Can be done in 30mins time. I did this while on MC at home, bored out of my mind. Hubby came home tapao lunch for me, and brought these to the office for teatime. But after he reached office, he ping-ed me and told me he had eaten them because it smelled so nice. Hahaha! I’m glad you like my cooking hun. :D Muaks! Thanks for being so supportive.

Hotdog pie

Category: food  2 Comments
Jul
16

 

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